They talk about some of the different styles of play, the different emotions that scenes can evoke. They dive deep into what it feels like to be submissive or dominant and the reasons why people enjoy topping or bottoming. And that’s precisely what these two books do.īoth The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book fill in all the bits that other books tend not to talk about. I was missing the dough to draw it all together into one sweet, delicious package. It was like I was making chocolate chip cookies, but all I had were these big, rough chunks of chocolate. I read a lot of books that taught me practical skills. I was unsure how to figure out what kinds of things I wanted to try, let alone find people who would do those things with me. I knew that I identified with the submissive side of the slash. I knew that there were a couple of very general areas that took my fancy. When I first started to entertain the idea of getting into BDsM I felt very out of my depth. While that’s great if you want to learn how to handle a flogger, or attempt rope bondage, those books are often too specific for people who are just beginning to explore. There are plenty of excellent how-to manuals out there, but many of them are very technical and skills-based. I am always on the lookout for great books to recommend to mates that are looking for more insight into the world of kink.
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